Well I never thought it would be so, but Los Banos will always have a special place in my heart! It is a place I’ve passed through many times with not much thought, other than this is a good place to go to the bathroom 🙂 But September 17, 2012 it became the birthplace of my third son (no name at this time).
We had gone to Gilroy Gardens for my oldest son Dayton’s 4th birthday. Dayton’s birthday is actually October 2nd, but since Christina’s due date was October 6th we decided to do a family birthday outing early. And a great family day we had!!! My parents, Christina’s parents, of course our boys, and one of our nieces, enjoyed a nice full day.
Then as we were heading over Pacheco Pass from Gilroy back towards the 99 & home Christina informed me, “my contractions are 4 minutes apart.” She then began to search on her iphone and said, “the hospital in Los Banos has a birthing center.”
And so 1 day shy of three weeks early on September 17 @ 1:22 in the morning our third beautiful boy was born and Los Banos is forever a blessed place!
(I noticed they have a population of over 35,000 people here and just one Adventist church of 200. Maybe we’ll have to help plant a church here someday as a thank you! :))
Our boy weighed in at 7 lb he measures 21 inches. The lightest and the tallest of our boys at birth.
He was quick to eat and quick to pee, all good signs.
We don’t have a name yet, after all we were supposed to have another three weeks.
But whatever his name becomes we know that:
“Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord,
The fruit of the womb is a reward.
Like arrows in the hand of a warrior,
So are the sons of one’s youth.
Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them;” –Psalm 127:3-5a
Please pray for all of our sons Dayton soon to be 4, Landon 2, & Baby Boy Stuart #3 may they all be mighty warriors in the hands of their Savior!
Thank you Los Banos, the bathroom stop, for now being a blessed stop in our journey of life!
Albert Handal, David Asscherick, & Chad Stuart
What would happen if more of us listened to great preaching rather than the non-sense on the radio (for me sports talk radio)? Would we all be more edified? I’m pretty sure we would!
Thanks to modern technology most of us can take great preaching with us wherever we go through ipods, iphones, ipads, and I am sure all the other non-Apple gadgets I know nothing about (yes that was a plug for Apple:)).
Right now there is some great preaching going on and I would encourage y’all to download some and have a regular listen. Have church in your car every time you drive.
We’ll start with to me the living Dean of Preachers in Adventism:
Pastor Dwight Nelson: He brings a strong word week after week!
On the Lightbearers website you can get tons of free audio as well as lots of other great resources. Here you will hear great preachers like Pastors David Asscherick, Ty Gibson, James Rafferty, & Jeffery Rosario.
Pastor John Bradshaw will bless you through the weekly It Is Written Broadcast
You can hear a good word from Pastor Nathan Renner.
I’m sure there are many more–one I think of is Pastor Carlton Byrd (and hopefully he’ll read this and get his stuff online:))–but these are just a few I would recommend for this evening.
What about you, who would you suggest? Feel free to post the links in the comments.
The Top Ten Posts For August, 2012:
P.S. In Defense of Ted remains the most popular post I have written since I began blogging remaining in the top 10 ever month since it was written in April, until this month where it fell to # 18 on popularity scale. And yes I still stand by the sentiments of that post today!
Powerful, Powerful Song–The Collingsworth Family: “Resurrection Morn”
From 1989 Gaither Vocal Band “Daystar”
The Collingsworth Family–At Calvary
Also from 1989 GVB “Alpha & Omega” my wonderful Mom’s favorite song.
My wife Christina & I are now headed into our third presidential election season. I mention that because this presidential election season has been a complete contrast to the previous two presidential elections we’ve gone through together.
It has been peaceful!
Why?
Not because we are now both members of the same party, to be honest Christina won’t even tell me what party she is registered with, if any. Nor has she confirmed her vote in any of the previous elections. I always want to talk about whom I just voted for & my dear wife sits there silently, not taking any of the bait.
It is not because I no longer pay attention to politics. I still read the news articles and head to Real Clear Politics almost every single day to see the latest polls.
Nor because she is less involved, her involvment has always been zero ’till election time, so you can’t go much less than that.
No, the reason this election season is peaceful is because I’ve repented!
I’ve repented of all the years of my life I put politics ahead of the Gospel!
That is what I believe happens when Pastors, well really all Christians, enter the fray of the political dialogue to such a degree that they are willing to alienate another human being over a political conviction.
I learned this lesson again just recently, when I decided to visit a Chick-fil-a for the first time ever in my life. I went not based on a moral conviction regarding the issue at hand or due to my loyalty to any political party. I went simply because I was irritated with a politician I heard tell people not to frequent the business based on the owners particular point of view.
I posted a picture of my wife returning to our car with the caption “waiting in line for the first and probably last time at a Chick-Fil-a.”
By the time I got home, my Facebook was lit up with comments most supportive, but quite a number in angst over my decision to go to the Chick-Fil-a. My initial reaction was to get defensive and even mad at those that were so bothered…but then I stepped back and I agreed with the people that were mad at me, I was mad at me too!
I was not mad at myself for the same reason most of them were, but I was mad at myself for needlessly entering a battle that was a no-win situation as most battles fought through political means are!
This election season I had done so well at keeping my mouth shut. Not posting any opinions about the candidates. Not even pressing “like” on the political satire constantly being posted on Facebook. Christina had not had to tell me every Sabbath afternoon to stop talking politics (that is why it is peaceful now:)). I have not felt the need to throw under handed digs into my sermons against one party or another. I have not posted video clips of one candidate or another that clearly shows my endorsement, without ever actually endorsing anyone (since that would be illegal for me as a pastor). But now just like that, in just a moments time with one simple picture and post on Facebook, I was back in the thick of it and I had people in support and people in opposition going at it on my Facebook page. This was something I would have loved in years past, but that I now despise!
I despise, because Jesus deserves better than having one of His children putting politics ahead of the Gospel.
And that is exactly what we are doing whenever we choose to have an argument about politics, publically endorse a candidate, put a political placard in our front yard, or slap a bumper sticker onto our car that will alienate one group for the sake of rallying another.
During the 2010 Congressional Elections as I was becoming my usual heated self, ready and willing to have debates with both sides of the aisle and considering myself “oh such a balanced person”, Jesus convicted my heart. He asked me very clearly, “are you willing to sacrifice your ability to witness to someone for the joy of being right about a political candidate.”
My answer is NO!
The Salvation of all mankind Republican, Democrat, Libertarian, Independent, etc. is far more important to me than any position I have.
But when I choose to voicferously express my political views.
When I choose to post political digs on my twitter or facebook accounts against particular parties or individuals.
When I am willing to have an argument or even an intense discussion about politics…
In this politically polarized and politcally caustic society I am essentially choosing to say, “I care more about my views and what I want than being a witness to you.”
Thus, I care more about myself and my way of life than I do your eternal salvation!
I still enjoy & even care very much about what is happening in the political world. It is my hobby–but it is now a personal hobby, between me, myself, & I.
And I repent for the years I put politics ahead of the Gospel. The election of a candidate over the witness of Jesus. Me over you.
It is peaceful in our home this election season because Jesus is the only individual worth publically endorsing!